At my school there’s this girl who is dating my ex. My ex has always tried to reach out to me and I have to keep blocking numbers and Facebook accounts to get rid of him but he always seems to find a way in. Today he messaged me and his girlfriend found out and started texting me saying how nobody likes me and that he never loved me. I so badly wanted to snap back at her and say some unkind things but I held myself back. I don’t know what she’s going through in her life right now, and even though she said some mean things to me that doesn’t mean that I should say them back. I need to be the bigger person. I never wanted her to hate me for things I never did but it looks like it’s come down to that. Tomorrow at school I’m going to compliment her on her outfit or her shoes to show her that I have no hard feelings against her. It’s really hard in these types of situations to do the right thing, and usually I don’t. Today though I felt that good angel on my shoulder telling me not to snap back at her, and to be the better person. What I wish is that my past doesn’t keep coming back and putting me in a dark place. I need to not let the past come and affect my future because it’s mine and I determine how it goes from here. Even if he does keep finding ways to get into my life I’m never going to let him in. I’ve improved to a better individual in life and I’m proud of how far I’ve come. From here on out him and nothing else from my past are going to get me down. Tomorrow I’m going to say something nice to her and I’ll let you guys know what happens.
Thanks for listening to my problem and if you have any advice for me on what to do I’d greatly appreciate it, thanks!